Comfortable Being Single


I got so comfortable being single that a failed to respond to love or welcome it’s coming. Singleness is not a defect or something to shun. It’s phase and like every other thing it too will pass. But we Christian singles have to know where to strike a balance.

It’s phase and like every other thing it too will pass

Miss independent has so crept in that it battles our very command to be submissive. I am no longer a victim but I was a victim playing “I CAN HANDLE MYSELF”. I discovered I was “putting God on a hot seat”, praying for my own man yet not making room for any man both by my ways and actions.. actions more.

Being single yet not truly single

Our confused state can’t confuse God. Do not invest in prayers and disregard the answers yet by yourself. Sometimes we claim to be single yet we aren’t truly single because we are playing a “waiting to hear from God “ with plenty men on the line so that when we decide that being single is no longer what we want to be called, we can pick from the many. God can’t be mocked . What we sow, we reap.

Take Home: It is fine to celebrate God in our single state and be comfortable being single but let’s also know when it’s time to embrace answers to our prayers. God doesn’t work across purposes. Let us clean house for real and be ready to receive His best when it comes to us

Much love


Temporal Love Affair -Finale


smile through it all and learn the lesson taught

His Spirit bears witness with ours

The check were so strong that i began to pray and ask God to help me follow His path not mine. By this time, he is away on meeting for fortification. At the return so much had changed. The usual question like ; how is mom? was now answered my mom is fine. Hmm. Now I understand the place of being sensitive and how to discern.

You know what they say about asking the honest question?. I asked and the bomb came but thank God who had prepared me for it. The explanation was out right silly to me as if to see a church is a building ( he said God told him he will meet his rib in a church and oops for me we didn’t meet in a “church”).

Lessons I learnt

  1. I thought I had grown my hearing God but its a daily walk
  2. I learned that our personal convictions should stand out above another persons
  3. That I should always hear God for myself
  4. Trust the signals in my spirit
  5. Above all, anything that tries to be first in my life above my God aint worth it

No matter how temporal “love” last. Lessons will always be learnt

Temporal Love Affair -Part 2


Love face lol

It’s okay to miss it in your walk and then retrace and learn better……

It all felt so perfect. It seemed all I had heard God say ( now i know that it was maybe my desire that I heard) that he will come from that part of the world and find me and you know what they say “forever after.

We dived into fasting as he advised. Oh my. He provided the powerful prayers for our future. oh i knew the devil was in for it. In my mind i saw angels around all as it relates to us 24’7.Despite the time difference, we broke the fast together and took turns in praying for us all before bed time( i’m sure young christian single ladies imagine this) .The bible study schedules. I can go on on and you will know why it wasn’t hard to #tag God to it all

I started having checks in my spirit but i ignored them because to me the devil cannot  pry into my prayer list and produce almost  the exact( i see better the place of watch and pray)………… to be continued

How often have you tagged God with something that was just you and possibly the subtle deceiver?