Love Bluff



You call my love a bluff?

Don’t get me wrong okay

You are right to call my love a bluff

Is that truly what it is?

Or is it that you are so used to wrong love that you can’t identify pure love?

Yes, pure love

You are so use to quickies that a wait is just wrong

You are so use to been lied too that the truth is cliché

You are used to games that honest moves you doubt

Your foolhardiness churns me

Do not blame your wrong love on me

You only attracted what you rated yourself to have

You are worth more but what if you do not know so?

What if you keep rating yourself needy and desperate?

How is that my fault?

I can’t let my love be a bluff

I won’t let you convert me

I will walk away and pray

Pray that you heal to identify love

A love that heals

A love that is true

A love that is genuine

A love that seeks out the best and to be the best

I pray you will not bluff true love when next it comes

I love you yet i love me too

Robbing Peter to pay Paul is not me

How to Learn To Love Yourself

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Growing up, I wanted to be some many things others were that i was not. I wanted to have big butts, hairy skin because then I thought it was sexy as most people who had hairy skin seemed to be getting more attention from people. I wanted to have ample hips (lol). I know right, it sounds cheesy but that was my honest reality because i thought there was some default to my creation… do not get me wrong i knew i was beautiful . i just felt having all these additionals will make me more beautiful. I wasn’t aware that my mind can be manipulated to think otherwise like creation cheated me.

I believe so many persons in today’s age find themselves in this inadequacy trend that the media and others are placing on us or better still we are taking on. We are only as effective as our acceptance of people’s definition or our definition of ourselves. Learning to love yourself is among the greatest victory you will step into in your life time.


Here came my total liberty. But who are you, O man, to answer back to God? Will what is molded say to its molder, “Why have you made me like this?” (Rom9:20). If we wonder at creation which took the creator no time to put together in it’s perfect state i.e the fishes in the water bodies, the birds in the sky, human kind on earth.. He is too purposeful to make you unfit for your purpose. You look the way you are not because He fell short in your make-up but it was perfectly designed to fit your destiny. So to love yourself, know that,

  1. God doesn’t make mistakes you are just the way you are as you fit into His purpose for you. So before feeling inadequate ask why you were made the way you are and pursue it; appreciating others yet staying true to the amazing you
  2. Love yourself more because you are a master piece (Ps 16:9-10, Ps 139:13-16, 1Peter 2:9)
  3. Build relationships with people that bring out your worth not those that devalue you because of their notion of your ” imperfections
  4. Grow to love God more daily and declare His love daily over you

You are worth loving because you are a product of love. Learn to love yourself more. How do you love yourself ?


Talk to you

Your heart has been broken again and again. My heart reaches out to you

It’s been one failed friendship to the next. I know it’s hard

You failed that exam over and over. I don’t think its hard luck

You have been working at that job so hard, yet nothing to show for it. Maybe working SMART is an option.

You see people get into this fix most of it not all of the time and all they do is blame other people, blame the economy, accuse people’s attitude but they never look within.

True change and progress comes when you sit down and have a meeting without self. The worst of all flatteries is SELF FLATTERY. You can not lie to you that will only make you stupid that is why even the bible says check to see if you are STANDING. Have a talk with yourself. Forget others and be honest to you and you will be amazed and the changes you will make and help you can get to make you all better.

I pray that this goes a long way to help you. You are special, you are loved and you are chosen.