GUYS= TRUTHS TO KNOW

Life, they say is what you make it but you must make life out of something; out of the ideas .This is mine. So guys these are certain things expected and I know you need to know (loud thoughts). It will be of no good to fake up realities. The best you can do for yourself is to accept life with its realities to make things easier.

A guy who doesn’t fear you (g); this doesn’t mean to be scared but respects, lol shivers around you, cannot truly love you.

A guy’s worth is not in his appearance but in his content which proves it’s self in caring, understanding and good attributes.

A guy who doesn’t fear God can hardly be true because men who fear (reverence) God don’t do certain ills.

A guy who doesn’t know that he has to give to his woman without her asking; it doesn’t mean she is money minded, hasn’t proved his worth.

A guy who cannot pin point a woman’s soft spot is fighting a loss battle.

A guy who doesn’t have the virtues of honesty and patience proves he is out for games.

A guy who doesn’t contribute to your priorities disqualifies himself for a relationship.

A guy who ask for sex from a girl (before marriage) depicts weakness and as such is not worthy of her because he doesn’t know her worth and he has shown how emotionally immature he is.

A guy who doesn’t respects a girls sense of belonging proves he is out for an adventure because it is all about sharing a sense of belonging

A guy who doesn’t understand that feelings are meant to be respected disqualifies himself from the race because disrespect of ones feelings is quite frustrating.

A guy who cannot explain certain ideas or happenings to his gal isn’t just true because reasons tie every action. The gravity of the situation doesn’t really count but its explanation matters.

A guy who doesn’t know how to pamper or control a gal when she is hurting cannot make it in the struggle.

Girls, most goes too to you.

There is more to life

Than faking of reality

The best you can do is accept its realities

God bless you

 

Love Bluff

What?

You call my love a bluff?

Don’t get me wrong okay

You are right to call my love a bluff

Is that truly what it is?

Or is it that you are so used to wrong love that you can’t identify pure love?

Yes, pure love

You are so use to quickies that a wait is just wrong

You are so use to been lied too that the truth is cliché

You are used to games that honest moves you doubt

Your foolhardiness churns me

Do not blame your wrong love on me

You only attracted what you rated yourself to have

You are worth more but what if you do not know so?

What if you keep rating yourself needy and desperate?

How is that my fault?

I can’t let my love be a bluff

I won’t let you convert me

I will walk away and pray

Pray that you heal to identify love

A love that heals

A love that is true

A love that is genuine

A love that seeks out the best and to be the best

I pray you will not bluff true love when next it comes

I love you yet i love me too

Robbing Peter to pay Paul is not me

Tips On How To Be Found By Yours – 1

 

The relationship world is one of the busiest of all in this age and time. Most people are in love relationship, others are in a benefit relationships, others marriage in relationships. Yet more are longing to find their own partners to settle down. So here is the foundation of this series.

Tip 1:

Be Truly Alone

Most people want to settle down but they are already settled and yet hope to be found. Be truly alone and the one will find you. If you are occupied then you are not available for the one to find you. Be single and you will be found. Playing games only makes you stupid ; self deceit is the worst of all deceit. Stop dragging around unnecessary relationships. Be honest to yourself and make room for what you want, desire and deserve and you will get the best…

Just my thought….what do you think?

Comfortable Being Single

I got so comfortable being single that a failed to respond to love or welcome it’s coming. Singleness is not a defect or something to shun. It’s phase and like every other thing it too will pass. But we Christian singles have to know where to strike a balance.

It’s phase and like every other thing it too will pass

Miss independent has so crept in that it battles our very command to be submissive. I am no longer a victim but I was a victim playing “I CAN HANDLE MYSELF”. I discovered I was “putting God on a hot seat”, praying for my own man yet not making room for any man both by my ways and actions.. actions more.

Being single yet not truly single

Our confused state can’t confuse God. Do not invest in prayers and disregard the answers yet by yourself. Sometimes we claim to be single yet we aren’t truly single because we are playing a “waiting to hear from God “ with plenty men on the line so that when we decide that being single is no longer what we want to be called, we can pick from the many. God can’t be mocked . What we sow, we reap.

Take Home: It is fine to celebrate God in our single state and be comfortable being single but let’s also know when it’s time to embrace answers to our prayers. God doesn’t work across purposes. Let us clean house for real and be ready to receive His best when it comes to us

Much love

 

Perfect Apart

Handsome, charming tiny eyes

Piercing, revealing tingling emotions

Forceful, unforgettable true memories

Uncertainty, difference in our great purposes

 

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