GUYS= TRUTHS TO KNOW

Life, they say is what you make it but you must make life out of something; out of the ideas .This is mine. So guys these are certain things expected and I know you need to know (loud thoughts). It will be of no good to fake up realities. The best you can do for yourself is to accept life with its realities to make things easier.

A guy who doesn’t fear you (g); this doesn’t mean to be scared but respects, lol shivers around you, cannot truly love you.

A guy’s worth is not in his appearance but in his content which proves it’s self in caring, understanding and good attributes.

A guy who doesn’t fear God can hardly be true because men who fear (reverence) God don’t do certain ills.

A guy who doesn’t know that he has to give to his woman without her asking; it doesn’t mean she is money minded, hasn’t proved his worth.

A guy who cannot pin point a woman’s soft spot is fighting a loss battle.

A guy who doesn’t have the virtues of honesty and patience proves he is out for games.

A guy who doesn’t contribute to your priorities disqualifies himself for a relationship.

A guy who ask for sex from a girl (before marriage) depicts weakness and as such is not worthy of her because he doesn’t know her worth and he has shown how emotionally immature he is.

A guy who doesn’t respects a girls sense of belonging proves he is out for an adventure because it is all about sharing a sense of belonging

A guy who doesn’t understand that feelings are meant to be respected disqualifies himself from the race because disrespect of ones feelings is quite frustrating.

A guy who cannot explain certain ideas or happenings to his gal isn’t just true because reasons tie every action. The gravity of the situation doesn’t really count but its explanation matters.

A guy who doesn’t know how to pamper or control a gal when she is hurting cannot make it in the struggle.

Girls, most goes too to you.

There is more to life

Than faking of reality

The best you can do is accept its realities

God bless you

 

A Girl like Me!

Too many people spend their lives wondering when next that good thing will happen to them. There is nothing wrong with that but then what ” a girl like me” discovered is that good things are not to be waited for they already exit. The good you seek is not from without but from within. Take time out, look WITHIN you and understand who you are, where you are form, what you are created to do and stick to your source.

For me i have picked a few true friends so i know I get the good daily. I know how to read and write so i get the good always. I know how to look at situations that think they can scare me and laugh at them. A girl like me knows that a Higher than her has her best interested at heart and His love is so sure and He WILL do all to make her have the good.

” A GIRL LIKE ME is the kind you should follow. Life begins with a meeting, hope we meet and grow.

Merry Christmas. It is a New DAWN

 

Men Preferences

You know what they say about going to a fast food joint on a festive day right? You get to a place like Wendy’s and you hear people placing thier orders. One says “I want cheese burger” and other “beef burger” ;reason-because all through the week their meals have had chicken touch to it and  another “ vegetable burger” as they are trying to keep fit.

It resonates to me well and I related it to us ladies and our preferences in men ( just my loud mind talking)

Finisher men are more attractive than starters

Fix it men are preferred to fondling ones

Praying men are preferred to players

Listeners are preferred to garrulous men.. @Atim’s

Ladies help me add the list and guys do you agree?

Happy Sunday

I AM NOT BEGGING

Give!!

Ha ha hha haha hha ( Laughing out loud)

I know I scared you. Well I’m not out here to beg so no need to fret.

A many we fear when we hear the word “give”; why? Some people do not like to give, others do not want to give, some need to give and yet do not “supposedly” have enough.

Asking the Honest Question?

I get so fascinated at the way people turn to act and behave. If you put yourself in fire, then get ready to get burn or find an escape. One of my lecturer once said” there is no stupid question and there is no question without an answer” Yes I don’t beg I

The Worst Thing To Live With

The worst thing to live without is hope and still the worst thing to live with is FEAR.

Are you hiding behind ignorance or fear is what has you?

Like a drum at night
beating hard mimicking thunder
with rythm and less might
but the echo chops the distance
reaching each huts entrance