What are world we live in!!!
There is so much deception so much so that WE get deceived as you rely on how deception is and does manifest!
I know it can drain you when it feels or you know that you have been exploited or used
No one makes you what you don’t give them permission to. Continue reading
Life, they say is what you make it but you must make life out of something; out of the ideas .This is mine. So guys these are certain things expected and I know you need to know (loud thoughts). It will be of no good to fake up realities. The best you can do for yourself is to accept life with its realities to make things easier.
A guy who doesn’t fear you (g); this doesn’t mean to be scared but respects, lol shivers around you, cannot truly love you.
A guy’s worth is not in his appearance but in his content which proves it’s self in caring, understanding and good attributes.
A guy who doesn’t fear God can hardly be true because men who fear (reverence) God don’t do certain ills.
A guy who doesn’t know that he has to give to his woman without her asking; it doesn’t mean she is money minded, hasn’t proved his worth.
A guy who cannot pin point a woman’s soft spot is fighting a loss battle.
A guy who doesn’t have the virtues of honesty and patience proves he is out for games.
A guy who doesn’t contribute to your priorities disqualifies himself for a relationship.
A guy who ask for sex from a girl (before marriage) depicts weakness and as such is not worthy of her because he doesn’t know her worth and he has shown how emotionally immature he is.
A guy who doesn’t respects a girls sense of belonging proves he is out for an adventure because it is all about sharing a sense of belonging
A guy who doesn’t understand that feelings are meant to be respected disqualifies himself from the race because disrespect of ones feelings is quite frustrating.
A guy who cannot explain certain ideas or happenings to his gal isn’t just true because reasons tie every action. The gravity of the situation doesn’t really count but its explanation matters.
A guy who doesn’t know how to pamper or control a gal when she is hurting cannot make it in the struggle.
Girls, most goes too to you.
There is more to life
Than faking of reality
The best you can do is accept its realities
God bless you
Your opinion of my prefect man is perfect. I appreciate your love because in your eyes I see he is perfect. The right height, appropriate age, prefect skin colour, fine eyes, glittering teeth and those drop dead abs with the right number of veins on his muscular skin, being able to lift me up to touch the moon and put me in a sweet dream(#put me to bed).
So I got to thinking;
Did you check if he has the right heart and loves the Most High?
Did you check just his skin or the scares that are born out of unconditional sacrifices?
Are his eyes just fine or do you think he will fill me life with fun and laughter and make me smile out my white teeth?
Is he just aged or mature?
Is it just the veins or you’re sure he will value me and bring out the best in me?
Is it just about lifting my body what happens to my Spirit?
Will i just have sweet dreams or be in the sweet place at the end of life?
Your answer will make me look into your opinion for me.
I find myself thinking aloud and thoughts pacing to and fro.
So which hurts the most “SAYING NOTHING AND WISHING YOU SAID SOMETHING OR SAYING SOMETHING AND WISHING YOU DIDNT”?
In my personal opinion but ends can make the heart fonder or harder. I know right. To me it is always right to free your emotions. Even if you won’t appreciate me for what I said, I will be happy I spoke from my heart.
I know the power in words, I prefer to speak. Let me know what you think . It is the reason we are here
After my earlier post on GUYS- TRUTHS TO KNOW, so many beautiful comments and remarks came in and above all some honest criticism followed like” you are biased by leaving the guys section out”. So now ladies these are a few truth we have to know so that we do not end up cursing no one but ourselves. Men bow to Respect, Loyalty and Care.
A girl who does not fear God will hardly be his pick when he finally decides is isle time. To them it goes beyond beauty and brains. He needs to be sure that his investment won’t be reinvested in a wrong place (lol)
A ladies worth is more in her character than her appearance. Before you start quoting wrong, please look good, dress good, smell good, put the right make it but be sure to know that it goes beyond the physical. It’s not like as it’s popularly said that they look for their mama in you, no; they just need to know that you know loyalty, tenacity and will teach the kids right morals.
A lady who cannot cook, clean and handle basic domestic chaos is not even on the list of possible winners. Call it 14th century or 21st; the belly power stands out. No one is asking you to be “master chef” or spring cleaning expert. You won’t want to blame Delilah for taking care of the man you ought to have handled right.
A lady who is too swallowed up in “miss independent” disqualifies herself. It is good to work and be able to handle stuffs but men are providers. No man rich or poor, fat or slim, tall or short will let the part of his ego be trample because you are a career woman and financially viable. Everything has its place. Men Pursue, Provide and Protect. Take this away from them and you will not be the one; can never I beg to say.
A lady who doesn’t know how to pamper her man, well you know what they say; all men are big babies. Like us they need affection. They need some tender loving. I didn’t say you should start doing to bfs what is done to husbands but in all pampering has its place in all. Do not be all “Margret Tachery” and needy like they too do not have needs. No man likes to be nagged at.
A lady who cannot comprehend that men love their mothers and will somewhat want a piece of that in their wife doesn’t imply that they need you bossing down their throats and acting all control freak. Let them have their space and they will make adequate room for you J
Men are not only after beauty but brains. A lazy woman who thinks a man should be her sponsor is in for a loss. Ladies get working. Do not see him as a solely a provider and you the eater be a contributor.
It’s not compatibility but suitability.
Let me know what you think?
We are in a generation of boo and bae and so you who is in a relationship if your focus is not right might begin to feel left out and possibly unloved but that should not be the case. You can still be happy and enjoy life even without a boo or bae. They do not validate who you are. Having a man or woman in your life is not what stops you from being lonely. I know very many lonely boo’s and bae’s lol. Being single doesn’t mean lonely and also being single is not a defect. Do not yourself lose your peace or let anyone make you feel depressed
These are just a few tips to stay in peace in your single state
Peace makes us receive more than worry. Your better half is on the way so stay in peace.
This gift and more
Working the works for the call
More of you
It is a comeback call
Comeback call to first love
A love that works in darkness
Sweetest walk, sweetest talk
Mighty love, generous love
Love reloaded, love reflected
Shared and poured
Eternal, unique, a call to stand
Stand in a love walk
A new path
A comeback call
What?
You call my love a bluff?
Don’t get me wrong okay
You are right to call my love a bluff
Is that truly what it is?
Or is it that you are so used to wrong love that you can’t identify pure love?
Yes, pure love
You are so use to quickies that a wait is just wrong
You are so use to been lied too that the truth is cliché
You are used to games that honest moves you doubt
Your foolhardiness churns me
Do not blame your wrong love on me
You only attracted what you rated yourself to have
You are worth more but what if you do not know so?
What if you keep rating yourself needy and desperate?
How is that my fault?
I can’t let my love be a bluff
I won’t let you convert me
I will walk away and pray
Pray that you heal to identify love
A love that heals
A love that is true
A love that is genuine
A love that seeks out the best and to be the best
I pray you will not bluff true love when next it comes
I love you yet i love me too
Robbing Peter to pay Paul is not me
Which is the greatest battle against your fulfillment of destiny/ PURPOSE?
I have been battling distractions lately from the purposeful and gainful things i need to do. How do you handle either? Your feedback will really help
Now i have had it with people, friends, family, loves one etc that think that because you are born-again, a Jesus lover makes you stupid and gives them room to treat you any how and try to push nonsense attitude and things down your throat
My note to all those who take people in their lives for granted is this:
We have being called to be gentle as doves and yet wise as serpent!!!! Watch it. Being nice does not translate as being stupid, you might be looking at your water-loo soonest. We are working out our salvation with fear and trembling and if it entails adding you to the the trash, it will be done. You need to learn what it means to leave at PEACE WITH ALL MEN. Be warned a word is always sufficient even to the unwise.
Keep yourself in check.
inspired Grisele 
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