- Be happy with God
- Be happy with yourself
- Be happy with your level and trust for better which will come #Faith.
Much love @ispiredGrisele
Much love @ispiredGrisele
It is oftentimes easy to miss out on purpose when we meet some that matches our passion and dreams. We have to be careful not to miss out on the purpose for which ,God created the meeting. #Inquiry
Life they say begins with a meeting
They met in church. Never really spoke spoke to each other but every gaze was defined. It had deep rooted visible meanings not just to her but to all that saw. This is perfect. God knows how to answer prayers that keep all the compatibility checks in place( spiritual, emotional, financial, communication … add to her list)
It seemed like everything she prayed for. Their purpose and passions we so in line and yes they were all serving in church. Church doesn’t kill the demons we have Christ does. Things seemed great till other girls furry grew. Unknown to her his past and present fondling’s with them was the cause. How do you do church and still try to play “Christ”.
She talked to him about it. Her zeal for God seemed to trim the sloppiness of his faith. Time and age was pressing on their relationship. Insecurities set in and pride took over. Pride and love cannot co-exist. Never. Too many emotional wounds and blackmails grew. Compromise was beginning to have foothold. The strong hold had to be broken. We often want to impose our answers on God and yet ask for His “Will”. They had to sit down and be honest with each other. They were trying to impose on destiny and not pursue destiny. They parted ways and remain distant friends and now both basking in the Glory of His goodness. If live makes their part cross again, good but if not purpose is being lived in their separate lives
Good things in life are desired by all. However, desire alone will not bring results. We want things yet we are not ready to pay the price for it. There is always a price; a commitment on our path. Here is my story’
I had a situation I needed someone to talk to. You know what they say a problem shared is half solved. So, I messaged a friend and said “I need to talk to you about something and get your insight” and my friend responded back with their availability. Later I discovered it was something I need to talk about not chat about and I asked my friend to call me so I can talk about it. Like for real? Is it really important to me? If so why can’t I pay the price to get what I want? Is it that I have gotten so use to handouts and hand downs? Hmmm
I learned later than desire alone will not do the magic. So now, that good thing which you have been desiring to have. What price are you are you willing to pay? What commitments are you making? I went out of my way and got units so I could call and the situation was settled. No doubt they say necessity is the mother to inventions. Step out of your wishing and desire zone and begin to pay the price for what you want outta life.
Life, they say is what you make it but you must make life out of something; out of the ideas .This is mine. So guys these are certain things expected and I know you need to know (loud thoughts). It will be of no good to fake up realities. The best you can do for yourself is to accept life with its realities to make things easier.
A guy who doesn’t fear you (g); this doesn’t mean to be scared but respects, lol shivers around you, cannot truly love you.
A guy’s worth is not in his appearance but in his content which proves it’s self in caring, understanding and good attributes.
A guy who doesn’t fear God can hardly be true because men who fear (reverence) God don’t do certain ills.
A guy who doesn’t know that he has to give to his woman without her asking; it doesn’t mean she is money minded, hasn’t proved his worth.
A guy who cannot pin point a woman’s soft spot is fighting a loss battle.
A guy who doesn’t have the virtues of honesty and patience proves he is out for games.
A guy who doesn’t contribute to your priorities disqualifies himself for a relationship.
A guy who ask for sex from a girl (before marriage) depicts weakness and as such is not worthy of her because he doesn’t know her worth and he has shown how emotionally immature he is.
A guy who doesn’t respects a girls sense of belonging proves he is out for an adventure because it is all about sharing a sense of belonging
A guy who doesn’t understand that feelings are meant to be respected disqualifies himself from the race because disrespect of ones feelings is quite frustrating.
A guy who cannot explain certain ideas or happenings to his gal isn’t just true because reasons tie every action. The gravity of the situation doesn’t really count but its explanation matters.
A guy who doesn’t know how to pamper or control a gal when she is hurting cannot make it in the struggle.
Girls, most goes too to you.
There is more to life
Than faking of reality
The best you can do is accept its realities
God bless you
I find myself thinking aloud and thoughts pacing to and fro.
So which hurts the most “SAYING NOTHING AND WISHING YOU SAID SOMETHING OR SAYING SOMETHING AND WISHING YOU DIDNT”?
In my personal opinion but ends can make the heart fonder or harder. I know right. To me it is always right to free your emotions. Even if you won’t appreciate me for what I said, I will be happy I spoke from my heart.
I know the power in words, I prefer to speak. Let me know what you think . It is the reason we are here
Too many people spend their lives wondering when next that good thing will happen to them. There is nothing wrong with that but then what ” a girl like me” discovered is that good things are not to be waited for they already exit. The good you seek is not from without but from within. Take time out, look WITHIN you and understand who you are, where you are form, what you are created to do and stick to your source.
For me i have picked a few true friends so i know I get the good daily. I know how to read and write so i get the good always. I know how to look at situations that think they can scare me and laugh at them. A girl like me knows that a Higher than her has her best interested at heart and His love is so sure and He WILL do all to make her have the good.
” A GIRL LIKE ME is the kind you should follow. Life begins with a meeting, hope we meet and grow.
Merry Christmas. It is a New DAWN
Pressing through to you
All I really want and need is You
You make a way
Some call you Way Maker
Others Promise keeper
You are above and beyond all
All I really want is You
All I really want is You
You sort me and found me
Your love is rich
So rich it never runs out or dry
Grateful I am for your Love
All I truly want and need is You
You know what they say about going to a fast food joint on a festive day right? You get to a place like Wendy’s and you hear people placing thier orders. One says “I want cheese burger” and other “beef burger” ;reason-because all through the week their meals have had chicken touch to it and another “ vegetable burger” as they are trying to keep fit.
It resonates to me well and I related it to us ladies and our preferences in men ( just my loud mind talking)
Finisher men are more attractive than starters
Fix it men are preferred to fondling ones
Praying men are preferred to players
Listeners are preferred to garrulous men.. @Atim’s
Ladies help me add the list and guys do you agree?
Ask a business man what a goal is and you will know that setting sex as a goal in your relationships is a dumb thing to do and if you are yet to be married and sex is still a goal to you, you need to seek a therapist… #loudthoughts
Happy new month
Ruth had her man and he was called Boaz. My Boaz is not called Boaz but has BOAZ traits
B: – Boldly identifies me uniquely as his in this world of many varieties and similarities
O: -Originally a smart worker & focused on His purpose and family
A: -Attractive and pays attention to my needs and that of others. Empathy is him
Z: Zealously loves God and works for God
There is a BOAZ out there for every daughter of the King. Trust His timing and trust your timing. No room for anxiety and comparisons. Stay focused and excited for yours is coming.