Mentoring Privilege

Mentoring is not about people’e inadequacy. How often time we (me) forget to see that when people look up to us or consult our opinions ( rare privilege from God)it is not because they want to be like us or is it room for us to try to reproduce ourselves in them. No!

Mentoring is about letting people discover the potentials deposited in them; allowing them to draw out of their wells and not try or force to create mini inadequate versions of our yet to be perfect self.

To all mentors out there, use the opportunity well. Do not insult this PRIVILEGE!

 

Who Told You

Who told you own me

Who told you i’m afraid of you

Who told you I will not make it

Who told i will not be the head

Who told you my resources are limited

Who told you i don’t have an army fighting for me

Who told you i’m not wise

Who told you, you have control over my future

Who told you mu anchor doesn’t hold

Who told you my past is all i will ever be

Who told you your lies has no end

Who told you we need you

Devil you have no part in us or me

Devil we not scared or unaware of your devices and tricks

We have the Greatest on on our side

We win

We will always win

He beat the grave

He rose from the dead

Can you beat that hahahahhaha

We have victory

Our Love

Our love is like fresh berries

Mixed in avocado smoothie

Our love is not smooth

It sails through all huddles

Our love is genuine

It’s beyond reason but fixed in purpose

Our love is in us

We all make daily commitments to make it work

Our love is working

We will work for the greater God

YOUR PERFECT MAN FOR ME

Your opinion of my prefect man is perfect. I appreciate your love because in your eyes I see he is perfect. The right height, appropriate age, prefect skin colour, fine eyes, glittering teeth and those drop dead abs with the right number of veins on his muscular skin, being able to lift me up to touch the moon and put me in a sweet dream(#put me to bed).

So I got to thinking;

Did you check if he has the right heart and loves the Most High?

Did you check just his skin or the scares that are born out of unconditional sacrifices?

Are his eyes just fine or do you think he will fill me life with fun and laughter and make me smile out my white teeth?

Is he just aged or mature?

Is it just the veins or you’re sure he will value me and bring out the best in me?

Is it just about lifting my body what happens to my Spirit?

Will i just have sweet dreams or be in the sweet place at the end of life?

Your answer will make me look into your opinion for me.

WHICH HURTS THE MOST?

I find myself thinking aloud and thoughts pacing to and fro.

So which hurts the most “SAYING NOTHING AND WISHING YOU SAID SOMETHING OR SAYING SOMETHING AND WISHING YOU DIDNT”?

In my personal opinion but ends can make the heart fonder or harder. I know right. To me it is always right to free your emotions. Even if you won’t appreciate me for what I said, I will be happy I spoke from my heart.

I know the power in words, I prefer to speak. Let me know what you think . It is the reason we are here

It Beats Riches

A true friend is one who does not search for wealth, riches or company but searches for understanding, trust and care which goes to yield true happiness.A true friend is one who we adore, respect and cherish; and it must be reciprocal, against all odds.

A true friend is one who does not strive to be loved and to love in return, knowing that love is not just a matter of sharing but instead brings in you a powerful sense of understanding and belonging.

A true friend is one who does not worry about love and is not judgmental, because love is the knowledge but honors its coming with soul, body and spirit.

True Colors

There is more to life than faking of reality

Hahaha lol No… I am not about to provide you with the lyrics of one of your favorite love song in the 80’s “true color”. We all want a good life, a stress free one, which is very essential in the busy and chaotic world we live in. Did you think that it’s only for the bad that these pressures or challenges you are facing are set out for? Well I use to think so too but now I am having a change of perspective.

Don’t run from tests and hardships, brothers and sisters. As difficult as they are, you will ultimately find joy in them; if you embrace them, your faith will blossom under pressure and teach you true patience as you endure. And true patience brought on by endurance will equip you to complete the long journey and cross the finish line—mature, complete, and wanting nothing (James 1:2-4 Voice)

Self deceit is the worse of them all

Did you try to find out what the situation is working in you or for you? It’s never wasted you know especially when you know your live is in His hands. I am not saying wallow in hardships and pressures but I think you should let it work out the perfecting of your “True Colors”. Let it make you get to know you and how well to work better on yourself so as to be everything you are called out to be.( E.g. a few arguments thought me that I had to develop a good listening ear than a wrangling tongue and stop my outburst; it’s still a process but the good thing is I know where I need to work) What has your situation thought you or  is teaching you?

Trust For Audible Answers

I opened by hand bag (nothing fancy but lovely) and right there, I discovered I am almost out on my “Chance” pocket perfume. I love a good scent. So now i’m going through my purpose to see if i should buy it now or just hang on for a few days. I tell myself; “It is well”

Days ahead we had gone out for our company party and out of the bloom we had to get into strange sporting activity for ladies (Catwalk). How unexpected is that? And yes winners go back with gifts. So i’m looking forward to it. I use the best God gave me and came out winner. Next day back at work everyone is asking if i got my git and what it was and older employees made me know that it will be a phone ( possibly iPhone)

I got what my heart asked and i needed

I am expectant and above all celebrating God I won something. The parcel comes and guess what it’s a whole box (perfume and deodorant) How precise can our loving Father get. God searched in my life even to little details as a spray and answered my silent heart prayer audibly, telling me He heard what i asked for without asking out loud ( God can do anything, you know—far more than you could ever imagine or guess or request in your wildest dreams! Eph 3:20)

God is ready to provide for you, He cares even for the minutest things about your life. Do not limit God in your life. His faithfulness you can count on. Much love 🙂

 

Be Thankful

It is God’s will for you and me to be thankful. Not because we are thanking Him for the unpleasant situations but for making us more than conquerors in Christ. If you have lost anything at all, He is the reason you did not lose everything.

What are you thankful for today?

One Day At A Time

I’m only human, I’m just a woman.
Help me believe in what I could be
And all that I am.

Some days just feel heavy when actually it is a day to rejoice and be glad. If you remember this song, join me sing or complete it. “Old school hymns have a way to relate to us directly.

Show me the stairway, I have to climb.
Lord for my sake, teach me to take
One day at a time.

Chorus:
One day at a time sweet Jesus
That’s all I’m asking from you.
Just give me the strength
To do everyday what I have to do.
Yesterday’s gone sweet Jesus……………………………