We don’t seem to understand why! Why people just can’t be themselves? Why people can’t be real. If I love you I will tell you, just to free my emotions. If I see your lips and it’s so cute and I want kiss them; though I won’t ( #righttiming) but the reason I get to be honest is because I won’t give it room to make me feel guilty. The truth setting us free is deeper than just knowing the Word.
You criticize people for being themselves because you fear being you; so as to save face with men. That’s enslaving for you because this men you are saving faces for in some part of them know that you are not real.
You wear short cloths to work and get all “nunnery” when it’s church time?
You use red lipstick but can’t use read hair?
You can hug me in the closet but can’t hold my hand in church or on the streets?
I will show you my lion and dove side, each as per the situation but the truth is I like to be real to me before being real to you because the only way one can be true to you is if they are true to themselves.
This “fakeness” is the reason for divorce, wrong marriage choices, sucide,gossips (you can just tell it in the face than do the back thing)
Double sidedness, double standards is this helping us? #LOUDTHOUGTS
This is a good point you raise. It is important to be real. Be yourself.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you, i believe that we can truly get help and be better if we are real to ourselves that way people know when, where an dhow to help us but faking it gives the impression of all sufficiency in lies
LikeLike
Agreed. We should be who we really are.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes dear. Faking who we are only hurts us
LikeLike
Exactly. ☺☺
LikeLiked by 1 person