Comfortable Being Single

I got so comfortable being single that a failed to respond to love or welcome it’s coming. Singleness is not a defect or something to shun. It’s phase and like every other thing it too will pass. But we Christian singles have to know where to strike a balance.

It’s phase and like every other thing it too will pass

Miss independent has so crept in that it battles our very command to be submissive. I am no longer a victim but I was a victim playing “I CAN HANDLE MYSELF”. I discovered I was “putting God on a hot seat”, praying for my own man yet not making room for any man both by my ways and actions.. actions more.

Being single yet not truly single

Our confused state can’t confuse God. Do not invest in prayers and disregard the answers yet by yourself. Sometimes we claim to be single yet we aren’t truly single because we are playing a “waiting to hear from God “ with plenty men on the line so that when we decide that being single is no longer what we want to be called, we can pick from the many. God can’t be mocked . What we sow, we reap.

Take Home: It is fine to celebrate God in our single state and be comfortable being single but let’s also know when it’s time to embrace answers to our prayers. God doesn’t work across purposes. Let us clean house for real and be ready to receive His best when it comes to us

Much love